How to fall in LOVE with a GIRL by Stockholm Syndrome

There is no scientific study to unravel the secrets of the secret. All body of information and knowledge that is available presently in the public domain has been either permeated from one generation to the other generation or has been acquired by individual’s trial and error method.

It is in a really very sorry state of affair. The matter that has to be given due importance, it is unfortunate is not being given institutional support from the government and not from the public domain. Such dichotomy in its importance and lack of infrastructure is really matter of concern to me. Whenever I ponder on it, it boils up my blood. I ask to myself – why people don’t give and have the inclination on this subject.

Since the resources of young human capital that India enjoys goes down the drain. Millions of million young love Turks either lie down their life or waste their premium age just thinking and thinking to get near to their dream girl. How India Shining couldn’t see this national wastage of our lovebirds? They are also citizen of India, how their perennial problems is not being taken up in the Question Hour of Parliament, where every thing under the sun is discussed related to India?

The government must address the issue and as soon as possible must take steps. Similar steps must also be taken up from the academicians and intellectuals’ side as well. Well, without going down to the theory of winning girl’s heart. Here I have proposed one method from the gamut of many do’s and don’ts theology.

This method is applicable only when the subject is in close proximity and sharing a common thread. It may be that the subject shares a common platform like a same school, same class, common neighbour, a bus, …the list goes on, to innumerable.

First, the boy must start observing the subject here it is his dream girl minutely and jot down what he notice. Make a list – what the subject’s like and dislike. Here he must acquire as much information as possible. That would help him later in the due course of time.

Second, chalk out a strategy to break the ice. Remember it is one of the most important aspects of the whole planning. Success or failure very much depends upon here. More is the creative strategy; more is the chances to succeed. The strategy must be practically winded up. Show no day-night dreaming!!!

The mental frame of yours must be static and it must start believing that the subject is not a machine, and is made of same bundles of emotions as you are carrying. You are falling in love with a girl and not to a machine.

Once you have broken the ice with a chatty conversation or the help of tool. From now on the most problematic period starts. It is a very crucial period. And here all those stuff that you acquired must be used intelligently and productively. Remember, one single wrong step from your side may get you at the origin. Back to square one!!!

Here many falls and few succeed. It is one of the ‘struggling period’ and it must be endured. The period of your struggling period may stretch from one week to 3 months. This period could be described very well by the Darwin’s law – Existence of the fittest.

Even if you get setbacks one after another, stick to your strategy. Remember. Always remember.

Winding up the whole story: Falling in love with a girl is like suffering from Stockholm Syndrome, a psychological response where the abductors (here the girl) shows sign of loyalty to the hostage-taker (here you), condition is that they must share a physical space irrespective of the environment, favourable or drastic.

So, transform yourself in such a way that you look suffering from the Stockholm Syndrome. Example: you might have heard and witnessed that when you spent enough time with someone irrespective of the nature of your relationship – bitter or warm. When you leave the person you develop a liking towards the person. This is the mantra on how to fall in love or penetrate a girl’s heart.

The name Stockholm Syndrome was coined after a bank robbery at Stockholm, Sweden where bank employees were held captive for 6 days and they got emotionally attached to the captors, and even defended their victimizers after they were freed from their ordeal.