Is your relationship stuck?

You are on the verge of break-up. Caught in an ostensibly unbounded roller coaster of guilt and retaliation. However, you can visualize the faults and the misapprehension that has erupted in between you and your partner. And if you can’t stop it right now then the result might end up in a divorce. This situation is common and most of the time due to communication gap – one fails to maintain the relationship bond for a long period of time. One can otherwise change the attitude in some way or the other to look after the relationship.

The concept of true manliness has gone too far, as today’s women’s world is far more elegant and full of life than ever before. This is really good, as with this attitude, both of you can understand each other well. However, the scenario has changed and the couples often play the difference game. The game, which is played every time to prove oneself as better or the best that results in trouble and chaotic relationship. In other words, one can say it’s an ego clash that creates a void in the relationship.

Why this difference game? The main purpose why they play game is to draw a boundary line so that each partner would not dare to go beyond the so-called comfort zone. But wouldn’t it be better to learn and develop a mutual respect for each other? This attitude would definitely help you accept the equality concept that is hidden in your relationship bond. Visualize this real love that exits – feel it from the core of your heart. This attitude will only develop if and only if you realize that you are equally hurt, just as frightened, just as powerful and feeble.

To understand each other well, it is inevitable to discover the semblance that exists between you and your partner. Also comprehend that you and your love have got the same intimacy and respect for each other. If you think it’s an easy task then you are mistaken. Though its not impossible, but it takes time to realize the same attitude in the real world. First of all, you will have to change your attitude of believing statements like: “she is selfish,” “she is very possessive,” “she does not like my freedom,” etc. The whole idea is to develop a mutual attitude that allows you to give permission and accept the truth.

However, it is true that we are not accustomed to empathy – but we have to accept it for the sake of our love, and emotional affiliation. Feel the beauty of love, caring and affection that you share with each other. Make your bond stronger with effective communication, appreciation and respect. Experts’ say that most couples visit to their clinic for counseling have got common problems i.e., lack of communication, and lack of mutual cooperation.

John Grey, the bestselling author of “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus,” has written very magnificently why Mars and Venus collide. In the book, the author has reflected the most common cause of relationship break-up. According to the author: “The unprecedented levels of stress both men and women are experiencing is taking a toll on our romantic relationships. Whether single or in committed relationships, we are often too busy or too tired to sustain feelings of attraction, motivation, and affection. Everyday stress drains our energy and patience and leaves us feeling too exhausted or overwhelmed to enjoy and support each other.”

However, life goes on and one has to cope up with these subtle problems. Then what is the best way to make a healthy and fruitful relationship? There are ways and if you exercise these very common things in your life then you can be one of the happiest persons in the world. In any relationship, respect, appreciation and forgiveness play a crucial role. If both of you understand each other you can cope up with any kind of situation. Develop a mutual bond and discuss the issue. Put your point before him or her and sort out the problem. Many a times, it has been realized that partners don’t communicate and keep things in their mind. As a result, a general misconception crops up in between them and disputes and misunderstanding arises out of them.

To maintain any relationship, the only thing one actually needs is love. So, cultivate this precious gem for the one you really care for. Spread the beauty of love and happiness and set up a new and ever lasting bond with your partner.