Please Help My Bro Get His Love!!!

It's URGENT! My bro is sufferring, yet again, from the most dangerous bug. He's in love!!! Again!!! I apologize for being unable to come up with the actual stats. Maybe this is his 15th, 17th...no no, 19th episode of love interest. Well, I just can't count the numbers. This bug troubles him almost all the time, in every corner he goes and with every move he makes.

This time, his lady love shined through, hold on, an email. Yup, you heard it right. Seems technology is really rising high. My bro has got her email and since then he got lost in the valley of love. He keeps getting lost there. Although he knows each and every corner of that valley by now. Okay, now coming back to the email. The progress led to another stream of technology. This time, the mobile phone...

Her voice pours honey drops. It sounds so heavenly...my bro can go on and on with the wings of his dreams. Love gives you endless wings. But my bro's happy with his two wings. He can fly everywhere. Can build his lovenest anywhere. So what's wrong if he wants to shift to her city and settle down there? I'm sure they'll have cute adorable kids. Ohh, I would love to buy them pooh bears and chocolate cookies...

I know when my bro reads this li'le piece of mine, he'll have already gotten names for his two kids. Hope the baby girl gets the sweet voice of her sweet mom. And the boy will be just like his father - getting dreamy with the emails and phone calls. And the bell will ring and ring and ring...

My bro's lost in his thoughts now. His is the big Hamletian problem. To call or not to call...Somebody help please!!!

The Rainy Wish

It's raining
And I floated my untold words on it
Wonder how you react when the raindrops touch you
Maybe a smile and two words
And a chain of feelings
I really wanna hop high
On the newfound tides
Gosh, the sea of love
Is just in front of my home!
Hop hop and hop
And here I go
To reach you there...

P.S. I can't wait to see you here and then we both float forever...

Love at first sight – believe it or not.

Do you believe in love at first sight – I do believe in love at first sight. And, I can’t forget the day when I had my first crush with a girl – she was beautiful and attractive. I don’t know whether it was a temptation or some physiological changes took place inside my body. But, the experience was unbelievable.

I was going home, when I saw her for the first time. She was dressed elegantly and I started looking at her without even a blink. She also glanced at me and I don’t know what she was thinking about me at that moment. But, I was quite fortunate, as she passed a beautiful smile towards me. When I reached home, I was restless and my heart was bumping. I just wanted to see her again and again. I wanted to talk to her and I wanted to know more about her.

It’s really important to mention that my home is very near to women’s college and I was pretty sure, she was from the same college. My guess was right and the very next day, I got another chance to see her, but as I was a shy guy, I could not dare to talk to her. In such a situation, I thought to share my feelings to one of my best friend – when I told him about my situation, he encouraged me a lot. I was feeling quite confident at that moment. But, for the next one week, I could not see her. Every day, every hour and every minute was like 100 years – then one fine day, I saw her near a shop. I was waiting outside the shop and decided to talk to her. She glanced at me and passed a million dollar smile – I quickly gave her a piece of paper mentioning my name and phone number.

I got her first call in the evening and started talking every day. But, it’s a universal truth that love brings smile first and sorrow afterwards – same thing happened with me. She is now a married woman and I don’t wanna mention her name. I am sure god has some other plans for me. But first love is etched in my mind and I can’t forget it.

If you have any such experience then please do share your feeling with the world.

It’s time to make a relationship bond

There’s a time in everybody’s life when he or she decides to go for a long-term relationship. But before setting up a bond, one ought to be clear about some relationship pitfalls that can adversely affect one’s relationship. Look out for these downsides – build a healthy and sweet long-term relationship. Based on one’s positive communication and loving affection – go for an unbreakable and stable relationship.

Avoid some of the common things that may sour your love. Follow some practical and effective guidelines:

Impractical expectations: A person acquires a unique behavior that is influenced mostly by the surroundings where he was born and brought up. It’s a long-term impact that gets reflected through one’s behavior. Therefore, don’t expect to change one’s behavior in one night. This may bring a large void in your relationship. Just think whether subtle flaws need to be pointed out? Ask yourself – ‘Do I need to make a big issue of this minor thing?’ No, you should actually not. Try to be flexible and sort out the matter in an easy and practical way. One common example of unrealistic expectation is thinking that he is the man who can solve all your problems, whatsoever. It is true that love makes things possible, but not every time and everywhere. So, don’t expect too much otherwise his frustration will soon come out.

However devoting yourself with heart and soul is not at all meaningful. You are not bothered; on the contrary, you are also independent and have your own values. No doubt, with these qualities, you can further nurture your love relationship. Love is like the roof of a house and without base, it has no existence. Be practical and take things in a positive way.

Put your points effectively: In today’s hectic world, we are all stressed out and sometimes we get out of tune. When this becomes a regular habit, our relationship breaks. Listen to each other’s views and dreams, as this brings more intimacy in a relationship. You can’t feel the affection without responding and reciprocating it. Problem arises when one of the partners is not willing to discuss or listen and either reacts verbally or physically. To nurture your bond, it is necessary to be patient and communicative. You need to talk about good and bad things that either of you have experienced. Be honest towards each other and share things openly.

Respect each other: A good understanding and respect for each other is the key to a happy relationship. Breaking a relationship is easy, but making it happen is really tough and sometimes impossible. Many a times, you show that your needs and demands come first – this is not done. It’s your bond that comes first before anything else. Know each other’s self-esteem and respect them.

Why we call it a long-term relationship because you are making a bond for your lifetime. And to nurture that bond is your own responsibility. This can only be done if you have respect for your partner’s sentiments. When your relationship works – you are the luckiest person in the world. So, go ahead and love each other all through your life.

Nameless

I nest a dream of thousand truths
But I don't know what it's called

My eyes exchange with yours
A vow of honest emotions
But I don't know how it's named

Days and nights are passed
With ageless smiles and tears
But I don't know when it's defined

There's one thing I know
That we share a love of eternal bliss
It has no beginning, no end

For the Friend that You are...

Dear You...

Take my hand and travel with me
I would like to go to the moon with you
Dance to the tune of raindrops
Touch the golden sky...

Steal my glance and see through my eyes
I wanna catch those glitters scattered in the stars
Chase after the dragon flies to my heart's desire
Fly through the nightingle's croon...

You must be thinking what I'm upto this time. Just singing my own tune and be lost.. isn't it nice to get lost in one's own dreams? When it comes to my dreams, you know it means "us". Think of the house we'll make home together. Dreams live their own lives...

"What's sweet to you - honey, sugar?"
"No, her lips"
"And what's soft?"
"Her hands"
Sweeter is her smile
Softer is her heart...

Okay, your apple is the sweetest of all. No doubt about it. But dear friend of mine, you need to treasure your dreams. And your apple too. After all, sweet things sometimes come to your threshold and ring your doorbell. Don't leave the hand alone and let the smile fade. As a friend I confide in you.

Me

A Dirty Scar on Love

This is about a girl I know. A simpleton at heart, her honesty shines brighter than the sun. And her heart purer than gold. She met a guy, fell in love and life started singing a beautiful note, until it took an ugly turn...

She loves the sky. Maybe that's why there're stars twinkling in her eyes. She loves the color of the rainbow. She believes, true colors never fail to shine. Her heart dances to the tune of raindrops. There are dreams in her eyes, dreams that she knows she can let come true. What makes her look so beautiful? Her honesty. After all, it earned her some of the best jewels as her friends. She's sincere with her friends. She treasures her friendship. She thinks beautiful, that's how life is beautiful.

Then she met him. She had a new dream. Everytime he came in to her mind, the world around her seemed lovely. Love gave her a totally different meaning. He's so caring. He understands her problems. Feelings he shares with her are so full of life. Sometimes she thinks she'll go crazy, she can't handle so much love. Does he feel the same way?

The sun seems to shine bright and high, unaffected and unemotional to the feelings studded mortals. It's 3.30 in the afternoon. Gosh I can't read any more in this scorching heat. Who can bear it? But I don't mind a little evesdropping...

He: "Give me some idea man. I've already spent enough"
Friend: "Beta you have to spend something if you are lookin' for something"
He: "Arrange a room for me yaar"
Friend: "Monday ko mera room le le. I can give you that. After you, I'll also make a try if possible..."
He: "But I don't think she'll agree"
Friend: "She considers me as a good friend and trusts me a lot. I don't think she'll mind"
"And start keeping condom with you now :-)
you can need it anytime"
He: "Okay"
Friend: "Is this her first time as well?"
He: "No, she is experienced"
Friend: "Aren't you gonna do everything with her if you got the chance?"
He: "Of course"
Friend: "So don't worry just make her excited and then see what she can do to you
She will she will rock you!!!"

All this while, she was busy dreaming about him. His simplicity made her fall for him. His honest confessions about love sound so true! She still dreams, worships his love, being totally unaware of his evil intentions. And of her friend's ugly instincts.

Friends, don't you think she deserves a better guy? And a far better friend? What should be the punishment for betrayal of friendship? What about love? Will anyone teach those guys a lesson on relationship? Or maybe teaching is a far cry. I believe in God. In honesty of feelings. WHAT GOES FROM YOU COMES BACK TO YOU ONE DAY. Right now, I'm rushing to the girl. Honesty prevails and true colors never fail to shine. I must tell her this.

Are You Lovers or Just Friends?

You two are best of buddies. You share every emotional tinge of your feelings with him/her - laughter, tears, anger, humor, happiness, sorrows. In every possible way, you share a much comfortable and candid relationship with your friend. With time, friendship grows freely and fully. With every single moment, your relationship deepens and feelings take a new turn. Over a period of time, you tend to ask yourself - is it just friendship or something beyond? You tend to develop feelings beyond friendship. Maybe you'll end up together. But this is what you feel. You are still unaware of your friend's feelings. You want to express your deepest feelings but at the same time you're scared of losing your long-harvested friendship. What if s/he retracts? Are you confused? Not yet ready to take the bold step? Think again about your feelings. Ask yourself the following questions.

1. Is your friend constantly in your mind throughout the day and night?
2. Do you wish to see him/her every single minute?
3. Is s/he the first person you want to share your thoughts whenever you're happy or sad?
4. Does his/her thought remind you of all the good things around you?
5. Do you dream of spending your life with that person?
6. Do you enjoy his/her company the most?
7. What do you feel when you see him/her with another companion? You go green with jealousy?
8. What if that person chooses a different companion to stay with forever? Can you live with it?
9. Do you feel on top of seventh heaven when s/he gives you utmost importance among other friends around?
10. Can you imagine life without him/her?

Ask your heart for the answers. Remember, your heart will never disappoint you. Now go ahead woth your heart. Take that bold step once and for all. Friendship or love, life is beautiful both ways!